10 words destroy the psyche of children .... Parents often words are not their own, but to
destroy the educational goals they seek, the word is the basis of education, and we are leading our children to speak Nhasabhm and encourage them to talk and talk and talk and angry Nmdham speaking children Fterbah either to speak or act in both cases are the words, verbal speech acts for dialogue and non-verbal dialogue, this is called permits and these are the words of education. Through my experiences in solving problems of education, they discovered that most of contributing to the delinquency of patients in the children with words and speech, and two days ago I sat with a old runaway from home to hear educational problem with his parents and has been summarized in a bad speech listening to them, and the girl complained to me the case of deviations, which is happy with herself, but she wanted to take revenge on the poor and their parents to talk to she compiled this language educational items diseases ten words destroy the psyche of children and encourages the diversion are: * Name: verbal abuse as a child descriptions of animals, such as "donkeys, dogs, beef, goat, my pet ..." or curse the day he was born. * Second humiliation by short descriptions and negative "brat, bouncing, ugly, fat, lame, thieves <insult anthrax and heartburn. * Third, the comparison and it destroys the personality of the child, like all children have talents and abilities to the next, and the comparison makes you feel inferior and killed the confidence and hated to compare . * Fourth: Love parole if the love he has done some as necessary "I do not like you because you have done well, I love you, if you eat well and had success and Makrt" Love is unconditional child feels he is lovable and desirable, and if the general feeling of not belonging to the family, because she hated when she was little, and the kids love Grandma and Grandpa a lot because their love is unconditional. * Fifth incorrect information as "a man does not cry, closed after small, this type of Jenin, thank God punishes you and be burned with fire." * Sixth frustration "You are what you mean, shut up, O Satan, that income "* Seventh: the threat of evil." break the head, drink his blood, Ozbg. * Eighth convincingly that preventing the repetition of saying no, no, no and always reject claims no tax reason. * IX: pray for him as "God take you to die, Cursed." * X. scandal by revealing secrets and privacy, this complete ten saw a study that indicates that the child has heard of teenage parents to bad word of sixteen thousand insults, but the study did not follow a we type of language and diseases mentioned, Imagine with me a child has not reached the age of eight, in his dictionary of more than five thousand words, the greatest weapons of devastating impact that will mass destruction, to destroy his life and psyche. Summary of our Holy Prophet peace be upon him throughout this article four words that say peace be upon him "uninsured Btaan or a curse or obscene or indecent" The basic principle is to avoid the negative quartet and replace it with another positive Qualifications Fenrkz our children love, encouragement and praise and respect. The right word is more important than al-Attiyah, said the Almighty (the words of the famous and forgiveness is better than charity followed by injury) and we give our children all the food, games, entertainment and education, but Ndmarham Nhrgahm and talking, and this disagreement approach the Qur'an, contemporary scientists have discovered that "a kind word and charity" have the same impact on the brain. Consider selection the word in the high origin of the word Koran impact of our homes, and the man between Islam and the word, and the degree is on married life in and out of the floor, do not underestimate the word, but we are ready for it and touching word that contribute to the construction of our children and their development, Fbalclam make peace and harmony and our children will be fully cosine.
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